Have you lost that lovin’ feeling for you?

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February is the month we look to celebrate our love for another person. Often we focus so much on how we show love to someone else, it makes me wonder how loving we are towards

ourselves. One of the most popular blogs on my website is one where I ask the reader to consider whether they are too helpful towards others. I think people click on that blog article because they think they are giving too much and they do not have time or energy to take care of themselves.

Today, in the spirit of Valentine’s Day, focus on showing loving kindness to yourself. Put some of the love you intend to give to another back to yourself. Has it been a long time since you have done something for yourself? If you cannot remember the last time you took care of yourself, take a moment to contemplate it now. Consider this an invitation to nurture yourself. It really is a necessity to take care of you first and foremost. My motto is, “I am no good for others if I am not good to myself.” Consider this motto a requirement, if not a necessity.

To start, you can ask yourself, “What would I do today if I was really acting in a loving manner towards myself?” What can you do, starting today, to take care of you?

If you have no ideas- let me give you some:

  1. Get physical. Go for a hike or a walk at lunch time. Bike ride or go to a yoga class. Being active gets the endorphins going and just makes you feel good.
  2. Play hooky from your normal activity. I love to take the afternoon off to go to the movies. It is so nurturing to break away from our routine, at times.
  3. Spend time alone: Go to a local coffee shop and read the whole paper, a book or a special magazine.
  4. Get creative: Go visit a local art gallery or museum to get inspired filled up with beauty.
  5. Be restful: Take a nap, sleep in a little later.

Imagine how it would feel to start caring for yourself now. If you are overwhelmed even thinking about taking care of yourself, take it slow. If you have no idea what you can do to take care of yourself, I have a simple trick. Think back on a time in the past, when you were younger and you did take care of yourself, what did you do then? Get that image in your head consider how good it felt. If the memory of it makes you feel good- Do That!

In honor of this month focused on love spend some time treating yourself with loving kindness. It will instill feelings of joy and happiness in you that you might have been missing for a while.

What is you answer to the question “What would I do today if I was really acting in a loving manner towards myself?”  I would love to hear your answer below.

 

Kim McLaughlin, MA is a motivational coach and counselor who works with people who struggle with binge eating, emotional eating and overeating. Kim offers a free Breakthrough Strategy Session to determine if her services might fit your needs. You can contact her here

Kim McLaughlin has been identified as writing one of the Top 50 Blogs about Emotional Eating by the Institute on Emotional Eating. Sign up for her free Special Report: Top Strategies to End Binge Eating here or visit her website at www.FeedYourSoulUnlimited.com.

 

 

Comments

  1. Great idea! I try to do art each day. I enjoy crafting and find it is great self-care. I like to share my work with others. Family and friends respond well to small gifts, that is very rewarding as well.